Friday, January 24, 2014

Service Project – Part 2 – 25 January, 2014

Back in November, just before Elder and Sister Tennis left they had a YSA committee and were planning several activities.  At the time one young man on the committee told them he thought they needed to do a service project.  So of course they put him in charge of it.

His name is Willie Irava, and he took on the project and ran with it.  He organized the cleanup of Suva Point and other beach areas with the YSA’s, city employees and police recruits all working together on it.  It was a great project and a very successful activity, but he didn’t stop there.

He worked with the Church Welfare department and Suva City and arranged for the Church to purchase 10 large rubbish cans to be placed in the Suva Point area.  But these weren’t normal rubbish bins, these are huge and have two compartments, one for rubbish and one for recycling, and they pivot to make emptying them easy and quick.  Each bin cost $1000 and here are 10 of them and they have the YSA name and the Church's name on them all.

Yesterday was the second part of the project – the hand off to the city.  The ceremony was held at the new Suva Park pavilion and the YSA’s were in charge.  They conducted, they sang, they gave prayers and Willie talked about this project.  Lunch was served after.  It was an impressive ceremony, planned by Willie who is an impressive young man.  As he gave his talk he bore his testimony to the city officials – he is fearless.  And did I mention that he is only 18 years old and is just in the process of putting in his mission papers?  Good job Willie!!!

Sunday, January 19, 2014

New Clothes – January 20, 2014

Dew is not a clothes horse!  And that is putting it mildly.  He hates shopping, he hates trying on clothes, and he hates wearing anything new.  It has always been this way.
So imagine my surprise when over the Christmas break we went shopping and he went hog wild!  He came home with a new swimming suit, new knee length shorts, a Bula shirt and ….wait for it!  A sulu!!!!  Not only did he come out with new stuff, but I made a purchase or two as well.
Back to my original story.  As we have mentioned before the YSA’s commented to him when we went Christmas Caroling – “Elder Jackson, you are the only one not wearing a sulu!” And he was. So it took a bit of “peer pressure” but he finally bit the bullet and bought one.
And now it hangs in his closet and gets worn once every seven days, because it is in his “pant rotation.”  But we don’t care – at least he now owns one.  And if truth be known he actually likes wearing it, he says “women have had it good for all these years!  If I had known how cool it is to wear a skirt I would have worn one years ago!”  Uuggggggg!
Dewayne - Sulu

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Shirley Gets Driving License–January 15, 2014

Shirley has been procrastinating getting a driving license, but today she went down to make an appointment and ended up taking the driving test.  She passed with flying colors and the grumpy old agent really liked her.  He didn’t ask one question, tested her turn signals and brake lights and asked her how long she had been driving and told her she couldn’t be that old. 

The papers were signed and she came back sooooo excited. Yipeeeee!  And then she had to flaunted it around the office.  I told Samasoni, if he saw a red car driven my Sister Jackson, that he should hide behind a coconut tree – he just laughed.

Shirl - Driving License

Saturday, January 11, 2014

The Only Survivor–January 12, 2014

Shortly after arriving here in Fiji we were told a pretty amazing story of a family that was headed for Suva and a very bad storm.  And then when we traveled to Vanua Levu we met the amazing man that the story was about.  His name is Joeli Kalougata and he is now a member of the Taveuni District Presidency.

Following is a condensed version of his story and it is found in the October 2004, Liahona Magazine:

Even after being saved from drowning, I still needed rescuing.

It was an overcast morning in December 1973, buLabasa Savusavu Trip60t the weather did not reflect my mood. Standing on the deck of a cargo vessel with my parents and two younger siblings, I was in high spirits as we began to pull away from our small South Pacific island. The ship was the Uluilakeba, bound for Suva, the capital of the Fiji Islands.

For a 12-year-old boy from the outer island of Ono-i-Lau, a trip to the big city was no everyday experience. Along with my parents and two of my siblings, I had eagerly awaited this day. The five of us were traveling to Suva to be baptized into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Finding the Truth

The light of the restored gospel had first shone in our home in an extraordinary way. My father, Mosese, was raised a Methodist. But through years upon years of personal study in the Bible, he had concluded that the true Church of Jesus Christ as described in the holy scriptures was not known on our tiny native island. He never once allowed our family to attend church services of any kind, yet we would gather together daily at his feet as he taught from the Bible. With each passing year, as my father continued to search the scriptures, he became more convinced that the true Church of Jesus Christ was not in existence.

Thus we remained in darkness until, finally, in 1971 our cousin Siga returned for a short visit. Siga had settled in Hawaii. We were excited about this unexpected reunion. Straightaway my mother prepared tea for our visitor, but to our surprise, he would not accept it. He explained that while in Hawaii he had been baptized into the Mormon Church and no longer drank tea. Having never heard of such a religion, my father questioned, “What kind of church is that?” Siga suggested that he look it up in the dictionary. Under the entry “Mormon,” my father read, “The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.”

Immediately my father jumped to his feet and pounded the table with his fist. In that instant, the Holy Ghost had confirmed in his heart that this was what he had been searching for all of his life. His whole countenance changed as he asked Siga to tell him about this church. A long conversation ensued as they began reading from the fourth chapter of Ephesians, discussing “one faith, one baptism” (Eph. 4:5) and the need for apostles and prophets. Siga suggested that my father contact the missionaries for further information.

And so it was that we learned, for the first time, of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. My father began corresponding with President Ebbie L. Davis of the Fiji Suva Mission (who is currently serving as the Suva Temple President), who sent us a copy of the Book of Mormon. Other books and pamphlets regarding Church doctrine soon followed. All of these my father devoured, and he found answers to his questions. Within a short time, he desired with all of his heart that our family be baptized. The Church, however, was not on our island. We soon realized that to be baptized, we would have to go to where the Church was. And for us, that meant Suva.

Amid Angry Waters

At long last, after we had spent nearly two years planning and preparing, the day had finally come, and we stood aboard the Uluilakeba. Energy was thick in the air as we crowded on with the other passengers. Hope and excitement filled our hearts as we waited to depart on our journey.

The ship left the dock at approximately 8:00 a.m. on Monday, 10 December 1973. With all the emotions of that day, I hardly noticed the gusty winds and threatening clouds that loomed ahead. As the boat crawled into the open sea, however, the weather worsened. Soon forecasts came in of an approaching tropical storm. Despite the warnings, our captain was confident of a safe voyage. We continued onward, while around us the sea steadily grew fiercer and the rain fell harder. Before long all passengers were instructed to take shelter inside, while the crew navigated the rough waters.

The captain was a relative of my father, and he gave us his personal cabin to rest in while we endured the storm. There we huddled together as a family and waited. In spite of the now heavy rocking of the ship, after a few minutes, my brother and sister and I fell asleep.

After what seemed only an instant to me, we were awakened by my mother’s scream. Water was now coming in through a small porthole. Sitting up, I noticed that my father was not with us, and thinking he must have gone on deck, I left my mother and two siblings. Climbing up to the deck was quite difficult, although in my panic I did not realize why. I did not understand that the ship had taken too much water and was sinking. Just as I reached the deck, the Uluilakeba began to capsize, and I was plunged into angry waters.

My only instinct was for survival. Desperately I swam with all my strength to stay on top of the monstrous waves. Within a few minutes, I caught sight of an older man holding fast to two floating bags of coconuts. Managing to swim to him, I pleaded for a bag, and he mercifully gave me one. I took hold of the bag and clung to it for my life.

Minutes passed, and suddenly I spotted my mother. Seeing me as well, she swam over and we embraced. With words I will never forget, she told me to hold on to that bag no matter what, for it would save my life. Then, after kissing my cheek, she left me to search for my brother and sister. That was the last I ever saw of my mother.

As the storm continued to rage, I did not think about what had happened. I only fought to stay above the waves. Bobbing up and down in the sea, I could see many other people, but I could not find my family.

The hours stretched on like a terrible dream. Soon night fell, and we swam on in the darkness. After what seemed like forever, the sun rose again, and I held on through another day and another night. Finally, around 5:00 in the afternoon on Wednesday, a rescue boat discovered us.

More than two full days had passed. Of the approximately 120 passengers who had boarded the doomed ship, 35 were found alive in the water. We were taken to Suva and admitted to the hospital. There, I learned the details of what had happened. Less than four hours after leaving the dock, we had been struck by Cyclone Lottie, a short-lived Pacific storm. The Uluilakeba was never found. I also learned that of the five members of my family who had been aboard, I was the only survivor. My family’s plans to be baptized into the Church had sunk in the depths of the ocean.

Lost and Found

Time moved forward, and I remained on the island of Viti Levu, the main island of Fiji. I went to stay with my older sister, who had moved away from home years before. In the chaos of the tragedy, President Davis lost track of me, and I lost track of the Church. Learning that I had survived, however, he instructed the missionaries to search for me. They looked for months but to no avail. President Davis’s time as mission president came to a close, and he passed the search on to his successor.

The years passed, but because of poor communication systems, I could not be found. The family I was staying with was not interested in the gospel, so I had little hope of finding the Church during my teenage years. I struggled with the loss of my family and wondered why I had been left alone. But I carried in my heart the truths my parents had taught me. Although at times I gave in to weakness and temptation, I always remembered my father’s testimony concerning Jesus Christ and His true Church. Eventually I got married and settled on Vanua Levu, the northern island of Fiji.

In March 1985 I was at work cutting coconut copra not far from the main road when an elderly couple in a small car stopped and called out to me. They asked me if I knew a man named Joeli Kalougata. But before I told them they had indeed found him, I asked what they wanted. They introduced themselves as Elder and Sister Kimber and explained that they were missionaries from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Finally they had found me! It was a glorious moment. Following six missionary discussions in two days, I was baptized on 18 March 1985, along with my wife, Elenoa. Our lives have never been the same since.

I look back on the great blessings my Heavenly Father has poured out upon me during my life. I will always be grateful for my loving parents and the principles and truths I learned from them. Because of my parents’ example, my wife and children and I now belong to the true Church of Jesus Christ.

In 1998 Elenoa and I flew to Tonga to enter into sacred eternal covenants in the Nuku‘alofa Tonga Temple and to perform temple ordinances for my parents and siblings. A few years later, our children were sealed to us in the new Suva Fiji Temple. I look at my family now—my eternal family—and thank the Lord for remembering me and bringing the gospel back into my life.

Saturday, January 4, 2014

52nd Wedding Anniversary–December 30, 2013-January 5, 2014

After all the Christmas celebrations are over – we celebrate our wedding anniversary every December 27th.  This year we celebrated 52 years together – that is a lot of years.

Our office was closed for two weeks over Christmas break and so we sought permission and received it to celebrate our anniversary by taking a short cruise.

We drove to Nadi on December 30th and enjoyed the ride up very much.  Elder and Sister Walker were also staying at the same hotel since they were in town for the YSA Conference and we both went out to the “Garden of the Sleeping Giant” which is just a few miles from Nadi airport.  It was very hot, but we enjoyed seeing all the orchids they have there, over 1,500 different varieties.  The gardens were started by Raymond Burr (of Perry Mason fame) as a place to house all of his orchid collection and he also had a home there.  It was very beautiful.

We spent sometime shopping at Denarau Island and then met the Walkers for dinner at The Hard Rock Café.  We also met a young man named Joeli during the afternoon and invited him and his wife along as well.  It was a lively group and the food tasted very good to us.

The next day we left on the Captain Cook Cruise line to sail for 4 nights out in the Yasawa Islands.  As we went aboard I noticed a familiar face – Ben (can’t remember his  last name) who has bright red hair, is English, and is the new Fiji Rugby Sevens coach.  It wasn’t hard to spot him, he stood out in the crowd and everywhere we went the Fijians flocked to him to have their pictures taken with him.  I must say he was most gracious about that and seemed to be a lovely man.

Everyday we got our itinerary for the day and every morning and afternoon there were snorkeling, diving, just observing in the glass bottom boat, swimming, and beach activities or you could just laze around on the ship and read a good book.  Every day there was a very entertaining marine biologist who also served on one of the two tender boats, that would talk about the coral reefs, the fish or anything we wanted.

As I said, after lunch there was another round of water fun, and then in the evening was dinner and some type of entertainment.  We visited a village and had lovo dinner, we celebrated New Years Eve, we had hermit crab races and bid to see which one would win – most of the winnings went to the village schools. 

Dew didn’t miss one snorkel trip and I snorkeled some and lazed on the glass bottom boat and found that it had almost as good a view of the coral reef as you could get out snorkeling.  We also visited a cave that contained a pool of cool water, which was great as the ocean was almost too warm.  The crew of the boat climbed up the steep rock walls and jumped in from very high up and a few of the braver ones also tried it.

We met a Fijian who now lives in Japan and is a professional golfer and his sister and her family and they were wonderful to us, and a couple of families from New Zealand who had their kids with them and we all pretty much ate together and it was fun.  It was a diverse group and as Dew was out snorkeling and got picked up by one of the tenders he sat next to a fellow and got talking to him.  Seems he was the general manager of Captain Cook Cruises and was there with his family, so it was easy if we had any suggestions to pass them along to him and he was eager to hear them.

The ship would travel early each morning and then drop anchor and we would enjoy a different spot each day, then move on the next day.  We arrived back in Denarau early on Saturday morning and after breakfast we left the ship, some heading to the airport, some heading to other destinations, some coming back on board later to go out again for another island trip and some heading back to work. 

It was so nice to have a few days away and to enjoy the beautiful water and the sun and to refresh and re-charge our batteries to get ready for the new school year which begins the first of February. 

Back to the real world!